Do you have a bad egg among your brood? Are you serious about disinheriting one of your children?
A few of my clients feel this way. They have their reasons. They usually tell me. Sometimes I understand and other times I am shocked. It makes me think about my almost-two-year-old and whether I will feel that way in 30 years.
One way to disinherit a child is to first name that child in your Will and Living Trust documents. And then include a provision in your Will and Living Trust documents stating that you disinherit them. You will want to state that this child is to get nothing and include a no-contest clause. You could write a letter explaining your reason and include it with your Will and Living Trust.
It's easy: you write, "I give nothing to my first born son named Biffy Mouthington and by this statement, I am completely disheriting him" ... or something along those lines. Each lawyer has their favorite phrase.
Personally, I prefer suggesting that the parent make a gift to the child that they wish to disinherit. A small bequest of, say, $1,000.00 or even a $100.00 if your estate is modest. This almost always means that at the time you drafted your Will or Living Trust you had capacity because you knowingly named your bad egg and even bequeathed your bad egg a gift upon your demise.
Another tactic is to send your bad egg child a check dated and mailed the same day that you signed your Will. If your child wanted to declare that you had no capacity when you prepared your Will (the easiest way to contest a Will) then what is that child doing cashing a $500.00 (for example) check from Mom or Dad? If your child truly doubted your capacity, he or she would have to explain why they cashed this check if they proceeded with a contest.
Your child may still decide to file a contest, but if you plan a proper strategy with your attorney there's a chance you will prevail even in death. Your attorney may have other tricks up her sleeve, too.